The SOS list (reminders of why I am leaving this narcissistic/toxic relationship) Do you need a powerful reminder of why you have left the Narsistic-relationship, preparing to leave, or are in the process to leave it? Look at The SOS list when you are doubting or considering returning to it or worse are being …
RELATIONSHIP GOALS WITH THE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP/TOXIC PERSON: Read More »
Don’t condemn yourself! You possibly have not healed yet and need to do the work to recover and strengthen your armour against the magnetic baits of narcissists or toxic persons. What do you do if you realize that you are going the 2nd time around the mountain of narcissistic abuse? Follow these 7 Steps: …
Another Relationship with a Narcissist or Toxic person – Around the same mountain AGAIN! Read More »
1. Focus on what you have gained and not on what you have lost per example: (Make a list and place it on your fridge or cupboard) GAINED: Freedom More peace Reduced walking on eggshells Not subject to the negative moods of the Narcissist or Toxic person Increased health Enhanced sleep Room for personal growth …
3 FOCUS POINTS FOR LIFE AFTER YOU HAVE EXITED FROM A TOXIC PERSON OR NARCISSIST: Read More »
In my legal practice and personal experience, children residing in 2 households when parents are divorced/separated can experience certain difficulties. To support and understand them better, it is helpful to understand their complaints and entertain solutions. The 10 universal Complaints by Children: The number one complaint is the packing and moving of their stuff between …
Co-parenting with a narcissist or toxic person is one of the most challenging problems a victim might have to deal with! It can be a road full of landmines and vulnerabilities. Your children are the very point of your heart and the fields for manipulation with co-parenting are widely open, if not properly managed. But …
POSSIBLE PARENTING PLANS WHEN CO-PARENTING WITH A NARCISSIST OR TOXIC PERSON Read More »
You might feel very hopeless at this stage and like a lost vessel in an open sea. The good news is that you can claim your authentic identity back and build yourself into a happier version of yourself! “Isaiah 49:15: I will not forget you. See I have engraved you on the palms of my …
HOW TO CLAIM BACK YOUR IDENTITY FROM BEING BROKEN DOWN BY A NARCISSIST AND TOXIC PERSON: Read More »
At any age, you can get back in the market by starting your own business or being employed! Secret? You must persevere, re-skill/re-adjust and be flexible until the mission has been accomplished! Most importantly – pray🙏🙌! To inspire you: I have written my Legal Board exam at the age of 45 with 4 children, while …
6 Vital points when returning to the business or job market: Read More »
THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE I CAN PROVIDE YOU TO BECOME INDEPENDENT FROM THE NARSCISTIC/TOXIC PERSON IS THIS: If you are contemplating leaving/divorcing the Narcissist or Toxic person and wondering if you can make it on your own- the answer is: YES, YOU CAN make it on your own if this is your final decision. You …
BLOG 3: The STREETWISE Bootcamp-BLOG series (Please read Blog 1, previously featured in this series, to give context to the rest of the STREETWISE Bootcamp-Blog series.) THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE I CAN PROVIDE YOU WITH IS THIS: WHEN BEING IN DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS WITH A NARCISSIST/TOXIC PERSON:(NARCISSIST/TOXIC PERSON will hereafter be referred to as an …
BLOG 2: The STREETWISE Bootcamp-BLOG series You must read Blog 1 previously featured in this series, to give context to the rest of the STREETWISE Bootcamp-Blog series. MOST IMPORTANT PRACTICAL ADVICE I CAN PROVIDE YOU WITH FOR CO-PARENTING with a Toxic or Narcissist CO-PARENT is: Strategy! Strategy! Strategy! And the RIGHT strategy! (Toxic or Narcissist …